How To Know When You Love Him

In most serious relationships, there comes a point where you wonder if your feelings for your significant other are actual love or if you just like him a lot. Deciding that you love a person is a big step that you should take seriously. Consider the characteristics of love and find them in your relationship.

Step 1Determine your happiness. If you are truly in love with someone, you will find that you are happy every time you think about him. Sometimes, even in a serious relationship, you will notice that you are unhappy more than you are happy. In this case, you probably need to consider becoming just friends. If you think more about the positive times than the negative times, you probably love him.

Step 2Think about what you are willing to do to make him happy, such as preparing a meal or accompanying him to an event you wouldn’t choose yourself. If you are willing to do almost anything that is legal to make him happy, you are probably in love with him.

Step 3Consider the time you are away from him. When you are in love with someone, time away from him will seem like pure torture. You find yourself counting down the seconds until you can see him again. You may even find yourself looking at a picture of him, or doing things that remind you of him.

Step 4Pay attention to the way you talk about him. If you find yourself telling other people about your relationship and say mostly positive things about him and the relationship, you may be falling in love with him.

Step 5Notice your moods. When you are in love, your mood will often mimic the other person’s mood. For instance, if he is upset about something, your mood may turn sour in response to his mood.

Step 6Imagine your life in 10 years. If you love him, he will be in the picture that you imagine.

How To Tell A Guy You’re Interested In Him

 

The idea of telling a guy you’re interested in him can be daunting, and it’s easy to let the fear of rejection and embarrassment stop you entirely. But it’s important to remember that all successes begin with a degree of risk, and without risk-taking you will never know how much you can actually achieve. When you tell a guy you’re interested in him, have confidence in yourself. Put the situation into perspective and try not to over-think it.

Step 1Ask the guy to join you in a casual, quiet and relatively private setting, such as a cafe or in your home. Do this only after you have spent enough time with him to know you are interested in being more than just friends. If you have only met on a few brief occasions, it may be better to spend more time together before confessing any strong feelings.

Step 2Begin with a casual conversation rather than jumping straight into anything more serious. Ask him how his day is going and what he’s been up to recently. Do your best to keep the atmosphere laid-back by making jokes and small talk. Do this for a couple minutes before moving on to your main topic.

Step 3Transition from the less serious conversation by saying something like “I’ve been wanting to tell you something.” As you say this, stay confident and remember that you will never get what you want by saying nothing.

Step 4Explain your feelings in as straightforward a manner as possible. Tell him why you enjoy spending time with him and explain how he makes you feel. Mention qualities that you like about him. Finally, discuss how you would like your relationship to progress. For example, ask him if he would like to go on a date some time or, if you have already been seeing each other casually, ask him if he would like to be exclusive. Be prepared for whatever answer he may give.

How To Get Men To Chase You

You’ve probably seen those women who seem to grab men’s attention no matter what they look like — even if they have no makeup, unstyled hair or plain clothes. Those women have something that you can learn — an understanding of how men operate, and a strong sense of self and purpose. By nature, men like to play the “hunter” role in the dating game, but you have to do your part to encourage it.

Woman Commits Suicide by Jumping in Crocodile Pool at Bangkok Zoo

 

A woman was killed by crocodiles after she jumped into their enclosure at a zoo in Bangkok. Wanpen Inyai, 65, apparently committed suicide by throwing herself into the midst of 1,000 crocodiles at Samutprakarn Crocodile Farm And Zoo. Inyai had reportedly not spoken to anyone in the period before her death. CCTV images showed her removing her shoes before she jumped into the water.

Synagogue Church Marked By Lagos Government

The last is yet to be heard concerning last Friday collapse of a building belonging to the Synagogue Church of All Nation (SCOAN).
The Lagos State Building Control Agency has now marked the main building of the church, asking for relevant documents to prove its structural integrity.

The 6-storey building which collapsed used to be a 2-storey building before the additional floors were added and according to the Lagos State Government (LASG) they did not give the approval for reconstruction.
In a phone interview with Punch, the General Manager, Lagos State Building Control Agency, Mrs. Abimbola Animashaun-Odunayo confirmed that the building had been marked by the agency.
She stated that the agency had requested the church to provide some documents and a structural integrity test would be carried out on all the buildings in the church complex.
She explained that the “X’ mark on the building does not mean demolition but rather it is for structural integrity test to be carried out on the building.

When asked if the building would be demolished in case the church failed to meet the requirements within the time frame, Mrs Abimbola declined to make further comments.
“Look, it is still under investigation; I can’t say more than that. I don’t even know who I am talking with on the phone,” she said.
The President, Building Collapse Prevention Guild, Mr. Kunle Awobodu, also described the “X” mark as notice to stop work on the building and also to draw attention to illegal activities on it.

He said, “Work was ongoing on the six-storey building before it collapsed though the church said it was due to an aircraft hovering for a period of time but this aircraft could be traced and enquiry made. Presentation of papers such as the architectural drawings, structural drawings, soil test reports and many more would strengthen or weaken the evidence of the church.”
Also speaking, a former Vice-Chairman, Nigerian Institute of Architects, who is a member of the Building Collapse Prevention Guild Technical Committee on the investigation of the collapsed building at the Synagogue Church, Olufemi Shodunke, said the professionals responsible for the construction of the collapsed guest house had yet to be identified and that the answer was important to the investigation of the committee.

The building which was still under construction at the time of collapse claimed no fewer than 80 lives, with many injured. Among those injured were some foreigners visiting the church.
Prophet T.B. Joshua the founder of the church had issued a condolence message to South Africa over the loss of its nationals and the families of the victims.

Want to know what a N350m shoes look like? Check it out on Nick Cannon

Rapper/actor and TV host Nick Cannon officially owns the world's most expensive shoes, which he wore to host America's Got Talent grand finale yesterday in New York. The diamond encrusted slip on shoes is worth $2.2million. This has got to be obscene on every level. Choi!

The Tom Ford shoes has 14,000 full-cut round white diamonds set onto white gold, with a total carat weight of 340 carats. Jeweler Jason Arasheben, who created the shoes, told Women's Wear Daily;

'Not very often do I get a request for the most expensive shoes in the world. When Nick approached me last year, he said he wanted to make history and be so over the top."

"'How can we make the most expensive pair of shoes in the world and make this finale special?' he asked me. We didn’t want him looking like Frankenstein when he walked, we still needed to consider functionality.

'He’s not going to win a race or play basketball with these. It’s still a piece of jewelry. As long as he’s not too overly aggressive in the shoes, everything should be all right.'

Nick Cannon also showed off this expensive Rolex timepiece 

Nick is said to be worth about $20million but his estranged wife Mariah Carey is worth over $500million...and once the divorce goes through...he will probably be worth more. 

Man hangs himself live on Skype while online spectators watched

26 year old Russian man Serger Kirilov (pictured above) wanted to commit suicide and so he went on Skype and announced that he planned to commit suicide and said anyone who wanted to see it could link to him on Skype.

Shockingly, many people linked up to him and watched him hang himself without trying to stop him. One spectator even allegedly said 'a real man would have killed himself more quickly.' Another said 'If a man says he's going to do something, he needs to do it.' Only one person tried to stop him.

Russian police are now trying to trace all the people who watched the suicide through their internet service providers. A Russian police spokesman said 'It is beyond belief that people could watch this as a form of entertainment. We will be investigating everyone who watched this incident, especially those who urged him to carry it out who may be guilty of negligent homicide.'