How To Know When You Love Him

In most serious relationships, there comes a point where you wonder if your feelings for your significant other are actual love or if you just like him a lot. Deciding that you love a person is a big step that you should take seriously. Consider the characteristics of love and find them in your relationship.

Step 1Determine your happiness. If you are truly in love with someone, you will find that you are happy every time you think about him. Sometimes, even in a serious relationship, you will notice that you are unhappy more than you are happy. In this case, you probably need to consider becoming just friends. If you think more about the positive times than the negative times, you probably love him.

Step 2Think about what you are willing to do to make him happy, such as preparing a meal or accompanying him to an event you wouldn’t choose yourself. If you are willing to do almost anything that is legal to make him happy, you are probably in love with him.

Step 3Consider the time you are away from him. When you are in love with someone, time away from him will seem like pure torture. You find yourself counting down the seconds until you can see him again. You may even find yourself looking at a picture of him, or doing things that remind you of him.

Step 4Pay attention to the way you talk about him. If you find yourself telling other people about your relationship and say mostly positive things about him and the relationship, you may be falling in love with him.

Step 5Notice your moods. When you are in love, your mood will often mimic the other person’s mood. For instance, if he is upset about something, your mood may turn sour in response to his mood.

Step 6Imagine your life in 10 years. If you love him, he will be in the picture that you imagine.

How To Tell A Guy You’re Interested In Him

 

The idea of telling a guy you’re interested in him can be daunting, and it’s easy to let the fear of rejection and embarrassment stop you entirely. But it’s important to remember that all successes begin with a degree of risk, and without risk-taking you will never know how much you can actually achieve. When you tell a guy you’re interested in him, have confidence in yourself. Put the situation into perspective and try not to over-think it.

Step 1Ask the guy to join you in a casual, quiet and relatively private setting, such as a cafe or in your home. Do this only after you have spent enough time with him to know you are interested in being more than just friends. If you have only met on a few brief occasions, it may be better to spend more time together before confessing any strong feelings.

Step 2Begin with a casual conversation rather than jumping straight into anything more serious. Ask him how his day is going and what he’s been up to recently. Do your best to keep the atmosphere laid-back by making jokes and small talk. Do this for a couple minutes before moving on to your main topic.

Step 3Transition from the less serious conversation by saying something like “I’ve been wanting to tell you something.” As you say this, stay confident and remember that you will never get what you want by saying nothing.

Step 4Explain your feelings in as straightforward a manner as possible. Tell him why you enjoy spending time with him and explain how he makes you feel. Mention qualities that you like about him. Finally, discuss how you would like your relationship to progress. For example, ask him if he would like to go on a date some time or, if you have already been seeing each other casually, ask him if he would like to be exclusive. Be prepared for whatever answer he may give.

How To Get Men To Chase You

You’ve probably seen those women who seem to grab men’s attention no matter what they look like — even if they have no makeup, unstyled hair or plain clothes. Those women have something that you can learn — an understanding of how men operate, and a strong sense of self and purpose. By nature, men like to play the “hunter” role in the dating game, but you have to do your part to encourage it.