Should I Cancel My Wedding With My Fiancee Or Not?

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I am getting married soon & my husband-to-be has not & does not intend to give me a dime to make some preparations from my end(of course I got my wedding gown & every other thing I need with my money already). My folks are agitated that as a man, he should @ least spend something for his bride even if not much. Just this evening, we agreed to get our rings seperately ‘cos we stay very far apart & he was soooo cool with the arrangement suggesting that I should give him a call before making the purchase, with no talk about how he’d refund me the money(for buying my own ring, not his). This, coupled with the fact that I would be responsible for the wedding cakes (60K) has really made my mum & siblings to be sooo pissed off with me for not taking his ‘stinginess’ up as a serious issue to be dealt with.

                                     Please note that he is a very God-fearing man
His input towards the general aspects of the wedding include: invitation cards, hall decoration, live-band.
Are my mum & siblings overreacting or am I the one blinded by love? Should I Cancel My Wedding With My Fiancee Or Not? I need objective responses please. You could be saving a life. Thank you